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Imagine running your household in true partnership . . .

The Fair Play Method is a game-changing, hands on strategy to divide household management tasks and increase the harmony in your home. 

Surprise (to no one): Babies and kids are SO much work!

It’s no secret: welcoming a new baby often throws the balance of household responsibilities out of sync. Even in couples who shared tasks fairly before, the arrival of a child can bring an overwhelming new layer of invisible work—and that load tends to fall disproportionately on one parent. It’s not just you- research shows that when couples have their first child (regardless of how equally domestic duties were divided pre-baby), in cis-hetero partnerships mothers end up taking on the larger share of the new work. Studies like this are helpful because they show us that these experiences are bigger than you and your partner- these are common patterns that are reflective of our larger cultural norms and expectations. 

From managing feeding schedules and sleepless nights to researching development milestones, organizing daycare, ensuring the changing table is stocked and remembering the rest of the never-ending list of tiny tasks—it’s a full-time job filled with mundane minutia that are easily not seen or talked about despite that they are the foundation of your family’s ongoing functioning.

Fair Play offers a clear, actionable way to name the work, divide it with shared intention, and bring more balance, clarity, and peace to your home.

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When everyone is working hard and exhausted by the end of the day, it’s hard to imagine a change that could help. A Fair Play facilitator helps you to navigate difficult conversations so that you and your partner can both move forward feeling heard, seen, valued and supported.

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As a Certified Fair Play Facilitator, I will provide you with:

  • A new, shared vocabulary that will change the way you and your partner think and talk about your domestic life

  • A system that sets you and your partner up for success in your relationship and your parenting by developing shared expectations and intentional task assignment

  • A path to ensure you and your partner each have "Unicorn Space" where you can have time to focus on the activities and passions to keep you feeling like you

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We all want to feel seen, valued and connected.

When you’re in the throws of parenthood, it’s hard to stop to be intentional and thoughtful about how you are managing your ever-growing to do list— you just do. Just as businesses periodically revisit and revise a job description, Fair Play provides structure and language so that you and your partner can examine your family’s workload and make adjustments so that your home and your lives can run efficiently. Fair Play helps partners develop a shared vision for their home where each partner is capable, competent, and clear on the mutually agreed upon expectations.